Ava’s Soccer Story began before she was even conceived. Her father had predestined that she would become a soccer star! Since she was about two years old, he has worked hard with her to achieve that goal. She just turned six years old but coaches and parents that see her play already say, “She’s going to be a star.” “She has an amazing future ahead.” Their jaws drop at her level of skill and some have even inquired about getting her autograph.
This is Ava’s Story. This is Ava’s life. This is who Ava is – She is soccer.
Chapter 1: Birth to Age 3 – Introduction to Soccer
Some might say Ava was born (July 21, 2012) with a soccer ball at her feet. They aren’t far from the truth! Cue totally adorable [embarrassing] baby photo.
Ava started playing soccer in May 2014, with Lil Kickers. It is offered by Sports Connections in Charlotte, NC. They did lots of cute things like chase and pop bubbles, play with a parachute, and of course dribble and score goals. She really liked being the goalie, hehe.
Next, we registered her in Soccer Shots where she participated in multiple seasons (8 half-hour sessions) plus three, week-long summer camps. She started out with the Mini program (ages 2-3) and finished in the Classic (ages 3-5).
In the fall of 2016, she joined the Mini Kickers, now know as Tiny Tykes (ten 45 minute sessions). This program is offered by Challenger Sports in Jacksonville, NC. The coach’s help the kids “develop their balance, agility, coordination, color recognition, and numerical learning, along with increasing their confidence and social skills.” She had a lot of fun! Great program!
Chapter 2: Age 4 to 6 – Recreation Micro Soccer
Ava was now old enough to participate in recreation soccer, where she had her first real game experiences. We had just moved and were not familiar with the recreation soccer options in the area. Therefore, Ava was registered with three different clubs to see what each was like. The resulting schedules were [obviously] conflicting but we made practices and games work the best we could. Sometimes we left one game 10 minutes early to make another etc..
U5 Spring 2017
We want Ava to gain as much practice/experience as possible. Being a part of three clubs allowed for that. If the practice was canceled for one team, she still had two more practices with other clubs that week. Our sole commitment was what was best for Ava, and less so her commitment to the teams – if that makes sense.
U6 Fall 2017
We opted for two clubs this season because Ava was starting Kindergarten. It was a good thing too because she practiced on Mon/Wed with New River and Tues/Thurs/Fri with Southwest. Many weekends she has three games, luckily with no conflicts.
The Camp Lejeune/New River Youth Soccer is run by the military – Marine Coaches with practices and games on military bases. These teams are co-ed and do not record scores. Southwest U6 teams are also co-ed and do not record scores.
U6 Spring 2018
Jacksonville Area Soccer Association – Fireants
JASA does not record score at this level and they are co-ed.
Chapter 3: Playing Up and U7
U7 Spring 2018
Upon registering Ava, the Director of Southwest Soccer Club recommended that Ava play up in age. So instead of U6, play U7, which is in the Coastal Area Mini Soccer League. It would be an all-girls team, for score. After some discussion we agreed to do this, with the option for her to go back to U6 should it not work out.
This season was very difficult for Ava, but it was an extremely important learning experience. In part, it was difficult because her father – trainer and mentor – was away for the entire season due to work. The girls were also bigger and faster; she had only just turned 5. She managed to score several goals in the first two games but quickly lost her confidence after repeated loses.
The team did not win a single game. She was the only one to score any goals the entire season. Ava did not score another goal until the Semi-Final in the season end tournament. What a goal it was, too! The parents were screaming with excitement; it was a beautiful moment.
Next season she will be of age to continue with U7, no more Micro Leagues. Her father will be home to continue with her training and she will come back even better than before!
Jacksonville Area Soccer Association 04/18
Coastal Area Soccer Association 06/18
Jacksonville Area Soccer Association 06/18
Challenger Sports British Soccer Camp – 06/18
East Duplin Soccer Camp – 07/18
JATA Camp – 08/18 (Check out the review here).
U7 Fall 2018
We are registering with two clubs for the fall season.
Chidi and I were asked to coach Ava’s Southwest team, we agreed. The Lady Rockets ended the season undefeated with Ava scoring 60+ goals in about 10 games. The team was awarded their Championship medals after coming in first place in the November 3rd, 2018 CAMSL tournament.
Chapter 4: Intro to Wilmington Hammerheads Youth FC
U8/U9 Spring 2019
Wilmington Hammerheads Youth FC
“Our teams our formed based on ability and after watching her video, she may be better suited with out 2010 girls that play 7v7 instead of our U8’s that play 5v5.” Justin Moose, Juniors Director.
U9 Fall 2019
U9 – Southwest Soccer Club (SWSC) – Lady Rockets
Ava did not participate in the Hammerheads Juniors Program this season due to learning of our military posting to Japan in December. The Lady Rockets were silver medalists in the ECSA Championship game at the end of the season.
Chapter 5: Winter League
U9 Co-Ed 3 vs 3 12/2019-01/2020
Chapter 6: U9 Spring 2020
After a long winter of daily solo training sessions of 1-2 hours, we got a little (BIG) surprise in the inbox. The Director of the Wilmington Hammerheads invited Ava to join the Juniors Program in Edge training, team practices, and games.
Our family moves to Japan in early March so it’s not a lot of time but we will take it. There are 12 practice sessions and at least 3 games that she can attend which is a great amount of soccer. Ava has been assigned to the roster of the Gunners which is a U9/U10 all-girls team.
To Be Continued…
Ava’s story is just beginning. Follow her journey – she has an amazing future ahead.